Tuesday night after work Anthony and I headed downtown for my first official media networking event. After hearing about an event last week that pulled in over 2,000 participants, I wasn’t exactly sure what to expect. Not that I thought they were going to cram 2,000 people into the K Street Lounge, but you never can be sure.
I was met with a room of roughly 100 people dressed in everything from suits to jeans and grouped around the room in conversation. Okay, I made it here. What next? Am I supposed to insert myself into a conversation? Look for someone standing alone? Is there some protocol for initiating conversations? I have no qualms whatsoever about talking to strangers, but this was in a professional context, and that was unfamiliar territory. I figured I’d take a few minutes to observe and process the situation.
Oh, but here comes a guy in a suit, walking determinedly towards me, hand outstretched. Hey, that answers that question. I’d love to tell you that the conversation went famously and I told him eloquently and collectedly about everything I do. But that would be a lie. I picked my way through the conversation as best I could, and was glad when Anthony joined in. He’s far better at explaining things than I am.
A bit later on in the evening, I met and swapped notes with Casey, Facetime’s other intern, and chatted with a handful of other people. I left at the end of the night with some business cards in hand and a much better idea of how these things operate. At this point, I may not be the master of navigating these events and walking away with tons of contacts I can utilize down the road. But I think it was a good first step. Don’t worry, I’ll get there.
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